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New Season, New Outlook

September 25, 2017

“I’ve seen a lot of seasons change in my life. It’s been a very lucky life.” – Tom Brokaw

Friday, as you probably know, was the first day of fall. I find this to be the favorite season of so many people. I also find myself asking why. Even my class of four and five year old students began cheering last week, when I explained the change of season coming. When I said, “Fall starts on Friday,” they responded by cheering and clapping. When asked why, one replied, “I like bounce houses.” I still don’t know what that has to do with fall, but I assume they associate fall with festivals. That was my best guess at least! It made me think of how wonderful it is to be their age and have no real reason for being so excited for something, to be genuinely excited about something so simple! The best season for me will always be summer, but I’ve come to accept fall. You could say we have a bit of a love/hate relationship! Don’t get me wrong, I do love fall clothes, boots, scarves, and festivals; however, I tend to feel a little bit disappointed, as if it is a let down. The summer comes to a halt. The vacations end. The cookouts come to a close. Beach time is done, until next year. The relaxed, summer feeling, suddenly disappears, although luckily where I live, we’ll have warm weather for a while longer! This year I find myself asking, “How can I make this season different, a more meaningful fall season?”

Eyes of a Child

As I mentioned, my students’ response and excitement last week, when discussing the change of season, really struck a cord in me. I paused for a moment, as they cheered. I took a minute, before quieting them down, beginning to think about why they had such a quick and joyful reaction. At the same time, why didn’t I have the same reaction they did? I remember thinking something like, “What is the big deal?”

When asked more in-depth about what they like about fall, children always mention things like: playing in the leaves, playing outside, Trick-or-Treating, Halloween, and sometimes the weather (depending on where you live). At what point in our lives do you we lose this childlike excitement? I’ve thought about it. I can’t really come up with a valid answer. I supposed it’s different for everyone. I don’t remember ever loving fall that much, since I’ve so thoroughly enjoyed summer my entire life. I do remember getting excited for raking and jumping in leaves, going to festivals, and Halloween. I think the older we get, the easier it is to focus on lists, rather than moments. Children think of it as a new time of fun things to come and all the things they might get to do. I think for me, each week during the season, I will try to find something new or a possibility to look forward to, as the weeks tick by so quickly. I’ve written an article in the past about trying not to wish the days away to get through the week, “living for the weekend”. I hope to try the same approach as we enter into this fresh new season.

The Scenery

Living in Central Virginia means most of our leaves are still green, and the weather has been very hot. Although it has not felt one bit like fall, as we get further and further into the season, our scenery too will change. I must say, I do love how pretty everything looks when the leaves have changed, usually a chill in the air by that time. Something about walking in boots with the leaves crunching under your feet is a relaxing sound. There’s no doubt fall is one of the prettiest times of the year, in many places of the country.

Speaking of scenery, one recommendation I have during the month of October is to take a long weekend getaway, just three or four days. One of the most beautiful places I’ve ever been for a long weekend in October was the Finger Lakes in New York. I stayed at The Inn on the Lake in Canandaigua. The exterior is gorgeous, equipped with Adirondack chairs right on the lake. I happened to be there during the most beautiful weekend in October, when the weather was warmer than usual, and the leaves had all changed colors. The accommodations were wonderful, and the restaurant at the inn was delicious, still one of the best steaks I remember eating. We found plenty to do to keep busy, including touring a mansion, visiting a winery, going to Watkins Glen State Park, and just enjoying the peaceful views and sounds of the lake. I highly recommend visiting the Finger Lakes and hope I can get back there one day!

Reflections

When I think of reflections during the new fall season, two things come to mind – the lake near our house and personal goals and reflections. This picture is the lake just down the road from our house, during fall. This lake is one of my favorite places to retreat when in need of a few quiet moments. It is even more beautiful in the fall, with all the colorful trees in the background. I think I’ve taken pictures of the lake every single time I go, no matter how many times. Something about it continues to draw me back and bring me peace. I’ve come to this place to simply sit in the quiet, say a few prayers, take pictures, walk around the water, make a phone call, eat lunch, or quickly take five minutes away from everything. I think a lot of people can relate to my love of water. Whether it be the ocean or this lake, it’s where I find my calmest moments. Just looking down into the water can take you away from the day-to-day tasks and thoughts spinning around your mind.

It may not be a place like this for everyone, but the start of a new season is a great time to take a little bit of quiet for yourself. Just reflect and relax. What is it you are most content with in your life, while beginning a new chapter of the year? What is bothering you? What needs to be changed? How can you do better, or who could you help? Maybe it’s in the form of prayer, journaling, or simply thinking it through in your head. Find a quiet place, alone, and reset for the next three months. It will most likely take more than that one time, but it will get you a jump-start on how to approach or change the next few months of your life.

How ever you choose to do it, use the seasons to reset your mind and outlook. Use it to break a bad habit, or pick up a new one! Go on a weekend getaway, or find something small to appreciate in each day. A new season is one of the easiest times to reflect on yourself and your life. It’s such a beautiful time of year, so why not try to be the best you can? Just like the world looks differently to each of us, we all have our own burdens and challenges. Maybe this is the moment to overcome a struggle or remove the negativity from your life!

 

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Yes, It’s Sweetest Day

October 15, 2016

sweetestdayDid you celebrate Sweetest Day today with your spouse or significant other? Did you even know it was Sweetest Day?! If you aren’t from the Great Lakes region, mostly Ohio, Illinois, Indiana, Michigan, and Wisconsin, you may have never heard of it! My husband and I are from the Cleveland, Ohio area, where the “holiday” originated, so we know it comes along every third Saturday in October. Does that mean we spend every Sweetest Day exchanging cards, chocolates, and having fancy dinners? Of course not, especially since we live in Virginia. We were surprised to find a very small selection of cards by accident recently, when looking for a birthday card at our local Kroger. We were pretty shocked to find such a thing in Richmond, since most often people here have never heard of the so-called holiday. According to Hallmark, Sweetest Day came into existence around 1922, when a Cleveland, Ohio candy company employee, Herbert Birch Kingston, wished to bring happiness to those who were sometimes forgotten. Hallmark began making Sweetest Day cards in the mid-1960s and now has more than seventy cards to choose from for your loved ones.

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I believe many take advantage of today to create a romantic day full of fanciness and grand gestures, but really it can just be another expense for a lot of couples. Some parents use it as a way to give their children more candy and toys. The gesture of giving a day of extra time could be a better way to spend today or any Saturday really. My husband and I didn’t remember Sweetest Day until this evening, when he saw something about it on social media. I simply responded “Oh yeah” and continued with what I was doing, content with the time we have been able to spend together today. We don’t always get Saturdays together, due to work or different commitments, so we take advantage of those we do. Today we filled our time with a free and local Harvest Festival, a late lunch at Chipotle (fairly inexpensive), a car wash and clean at Car Pool, and a few random errands, before returning home to finish watching the Cleveland Indians beat the Blue Jays in the American League Championship! As I finish this post, we will end the night with watching a few shows on the DVR, and I will no doubt fit in writing my lesson plans for school this week. Sundays for us typically consist of being filled at church prepping and running the youth night, so I have to squeeze my work in beforehand! If you didn’t know about Sweetest Day, you now know what kind of crazy things we northerners think up to celebrate love! Don’t be pressured to spend a fortune on love. Just show you care, and spend time with your family.

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Pumpkin Spice Please….Again?

October 11, 2016

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The other night when my husband and I walked into Kroger, I was overwhelmed at the display when we walked in the door. As soon as the calendar switched to October, everything pumpkin spice appeared, seemingly everywhere you turn! Now I know this topic comes to no surprise to probably anyone, but I wanted to talk about the obsession. Just look at the display in the picture! Years ago, when October came around, the only things pumpkin we talked about this much were actual pumpkins. Now it’s all about PSL’s (Pumpkin Spice Lattes if you still don’t know), pumpkin spice desserts, and even pumpkin spice waffles, cereal, chips, butter, soaps, décor, Halloween costumes, and even clothing! Change of seasons is one thing, but I can’t think of anything America obsesses over the rest of the year quite like Pumpkin Spice. What’s the big deal?

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This Pumpkin Spice Latte basically says it all. Whether it’s the typical Starbucks PSL or your own homemade creation, you’ve fallen into the annual fall obsession. Are you drinking this because you truly love the taste, or are you just trying to be another person drinking that infamous drink, probably wearing boots and an oversized cardigan. Many bloggers are now even posting outfit ideas and inspiration, based on the drink. Maybe by now you’ve seen the collages of outfit ideas, coordinating with the fall colors of a PSL….which are basically just your typical fall colors, with a picture of a PSL thrown in! I know some of the pictures I see are strictly for photos and Instagram goodness. I mean, really, do you often find yourself in a pumpkin patch with a perfectly matched fall outfit, cute skinny jeans, and nice boots on a work day? If so, you should probably be somewhere else! I don’t know about you, but when I go to a pumpkin patch or apple picking, I don’t wear my best fall look. Last time I went, I came home covered in mud and freezing! Please don’t feel like you must walk around with this obsessed-over drink down a picturesque town street, with colorful leaves all around! It’s not really what fall is all about, is it?

pumpkinspicecheerios Pumpkin Spice Cheerios….aren’t regular Cheerios good enough? Why, why’d you do it General Mills? I love Cheerios, and when I have time for breakfast, before rushing out the door, it’s usually my cereal of choice. I have not, however, caved to the trendy Pumpkin Spice Cheerios. My husband came home from the store recently excited and said, “Look what they had!” He held up this box before I had a chance to respond, quickly revealing none other than the Pumpkin Spice flavor. I’m not saying I definitely wouldn’t like them, but I have no desire to try them. He loves them and says they taste just like pumpkin spice. I think for me,  because they have become part of the annual fall trend, I have almost gone out of my way NOT to try them! Cheerios were good the way they were! I don’t need to add pumpkin spice to breakfast now too. I find it almost frustrating to see so many types of products now offering pumpkin spice!

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Instead….this is where we should be! The actual, real live pumpkin patch! Don’t be tempted to take that latte or put on an outfit to make you blend right in with nature. Just throw on a hoodie, grab your friends or family, and go to the pumpkin patch. Maybe you should even leave your cell phone at home! Pick out the biggest, roundest, brightest pumpkin they have. Take it home, spread out some bags or newspaper, and carve the best pumpkin ever this fall! While you’re there, take in the fact that you’re actually outside. Smell the air, look at nature, see the colors, and breathe the outdoors. The pumpkin patch is definitely where everyone should be in October. Maybe they’ll even have a corn maze, an apple orchard, or some….apple cider, not pumpkin spice lattes! If you’re local, go to Carter Mountain in Virginia, where you’ll find more apples than you can pick, a pumpkin patch, apple cider, beautiful nature, lots of families and friends spending time together, and their infamous apple cider donuts! Try something different this fall.

 

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